When conjuring up images of this great nation of ours, there is nothing more nostalgic than celebrating the 4th of July! All across the USA, folks will be gathered for picnics and parades, proudly displaying the American flag, our symbol of freedom and the greatness that is our country. It used to be that our family would retrieve the flag from the hallway closet around the first week in July and it would adorn our front porch for about a week or two. However, after 911, the flag has become a permanent fixture not only outside our house, but the majority of homes and businesses around town and all across America.
When I was a little girl in Northern California, block parties and fireworks were the norm and I remember one of those holidays in particular, because it was 1976 and along with all the neighbor kids, we decorated our bikes with flags and crepe paper in glorious red, white and blue and after dressing up ourselves, joined in the parade to celebrate our 200th birthday!
Raising my own family, we've participated in a block party or two for the 4th of July and often rode our bikes to a neighboring town to watch the annual 4th of July parade. First, it was with babies in bicycle seats attached to ours and then when they were old enough, they rode along side us as we peddled down the shady bike trail. Parking our bikes and settling the kids at the curb, we watched as the marching bands, floats, dignitaries with their political party affiliation attached to the sides of antique cars and policemen hoisted on horseback, all pass by. The children would sit mesmerized, absorbing the sights and sounds, waving their little flags to the beat of the festive music. That is, unless candy was thrown from a float and then they'd make a run for the pavement.
Over the years the sentimental allure of this special holiday remains unchanged. However, as the kids have grown up, traditions and celebrations have taken on a different form. We've spent 4th of July visiting friends at their lake house, watching the festive boat parade during the day as decorated vessels circled the shore followed by a grand fireworks display at night, lighting up the summer sky over the lake. We've also traveled to my folks and participated in patriotic festivities in their new hometown. One 4th of July found us in Arizona, where my youngest was to show up for football at ASU. I hid my tears as we parted ways the next day and I will always remember that this particular holiday was bittersweet, as it meant that my husband and I were officially empty nesters.
Other years the kids have come home from college to join us house boating on a California Lake or perhaps we stayed home and gathered with long time friends and neighbors in various back yards for a classic burger barbecue. Such was the case a few years back when a neighbor boy, Jeff, whom we'd watch grow up alongside our own boys, had just graduated from Marine boot camp. We hosted a special backyard BBQ in his honor, after he'd participated in the 4th of July parade with other Marines who were dressed in their finest. We are so proud of him and appareciate all our men and women serving and pray for our troops to come home safely! A song comes to mind, by the Zac Brown Band called, "Chicken Fried," which contains lyrics that sum it up best!
"I thank God for my life.
And for the Stars and Stripes.
May freedom forever fly, let it ring.
Salute the ones who died.
The ones who gave their lives
So we don't have to sacrifice
All those things we love."
Happy 4th of July!
And so, be it on this special holiday or any given day, remember to thank members of the armed forces for their commitment and dedication to our wonderful, amazing country! Acknowledge them at the airport, grocery store or even a parade and let them know we are eternally thankful! I never pass up an opportunity to thank someone dressed in their military uniform and their reaction is always gratitude. However, I am the grateful one!
God Bless America!
Cheers,
Caterina